With Jesus, all this is possible. He is like everyone's ready made best friend. And the awesome part is, he can be anything to anyone. For one person, he is a strong big brother type. For another, he fills in the need for romantic love. He is the friend, the cheerleader, the guardian.
At times, Jesus is all we have. When I say Jesus, I mean whatever supernatural entity people may identify with.
So, what happens when we lose the ability to believe in him? Or, what if you are a person who was never able to feel the "love of Christ."
When mom died, I decided I would hold her with me. I would hear her voice. I would never let her go. Because, the truth was, if she had not died, she would be there for me. She would call me everyday. She would come visit me and call my kids silly names and clean my house when I was tired. She gave me the love of Christ. And just because life sucks and she got sick, does not mean that I have to give up her love. Her love was real and it was given to me freely. I will never let that go. I can live each day knowing, I was/am loved. I am not alone on
this difficult beautiful journey.
I can also tell you of Judy, my godmother. This woman loves and cares for others to a scary point that most may think a bit over the top. But, she loves. She made me believe I was important and valuable. Maybe it's just because she believes Jesus made me. But I like to believe it's because she values the individual regardless. She believes in God and she showed me the "love of Christ."
It is true that sometimes we will be hurt, abused, abandoned, and taken advantage of. This is the risk. For me, I would have nothing if it were not for my mother and Judy. If it weren't for my sister, my friends, teachers, books, and the smile of a stranger, I would have given up when life got hard.
At times, especially since I have let go of Jesus, it is the smallest acts of kindness from complete strangers that allow me to suffer the pain of a difficult life. I choose to offer that to others.
We all need the love of Christ. Of course, I do not mean the actual love of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, who lived 2000 years ago, was crucified, died and was buried and now sits at the right hand of the Father. No.... We need the love, acceptance, understanding, encouragement, kindness, and hope that only we can actually give. Because we are all we have.